I’ve been debating many opportunities and future endeavors lately.
It’s been an interesting semester, and it is coming to an end. I have a few choices to make regarding the future, but making big decisions is very hard!! I go back and forth, always having other people’s opinions and thoughts in the back of mind, running the shots. I can’t get other people out of my head, and it’s affecting my decisions.
Life can be very hard, but I believe the most important part of life is happiness. We must make decisions, choose thoughts and behaviors, and surround ourselves with people and things that can make us happy. I have been debating the pros and cons of different ideas, but I keep reminding myself that my happiness is at stake.
You can’t think of other people when worrying about yourself. No matter what someone else may think of you, or has instructed you to do something one way- you have to think about your well being and YOUR life. This is your life, and it is very short. We must make the most of it, and try to be as happy and content as possible during the process.
While making my decisions, I have decided to take the next few weeks to cut off a connection with anyone else, regarding these matters. I am going to focus on myself and feel out the situation to the best of my ability. I recommend getting others thoughts and opinions on important matters, but when it comes down to it, you must make decisions alone because in the end- it only will affect you.
So think about your happiness- and do whatever you can to have the best life possible. You only have one, so try as hard as you can! Take a risk, and go out for what you want. You deserve it, and you are enough for whatever you want to do.
Go off and do what makes you happy, please! Xoxo